Making Love Out of Nothing at All...

I was very excited about the 22nd feature of Double-O, planned for a show on the first day...being friday cudn't go for the first show at 10:00 AM but booked 2 tickets, for Anju and myself for 8:15 PM show. At office I was in full mood of enjoying BOND, picked her at 7:00 PM from her office and headed towards Ambience. I had planned for dinner before the movie but Gurgaon's traffic came in our way, managed to be at The Mall at 7:50 PM with no time left for dinner. While picking up advance booking tickets, I asked Anju, tried with whole day of work, to go and grab something to eat as there is not much time left and these PVR ppl will not allow us to take outside food. But she waited for me while I stood in the queue to collect the tickets. Finally managed to get the tickets at 5 minutes before the show with no time for dinner. We went for the show and I enjoyed it throughly, great chases, gadgets, suits, scotch and Vesper Martini.

While deciding to go for QoS, I never realized that Anju doesnt liked english flix the way I like, but she never says no to me and I....forget it. Its just one of her ways to show me how much she loves me. I even didn't think that she will be exhausted after whole day's work. When I was telling her to go and grab something to eat while I waitied for tickets to be collected, she didnt go and I was bit annoyed with her but she didn't go because she wanted to go with me....

After reaching home later at the night, while surfing net and listening to Making Love Out of Nothing at All by Air Supply, I realized that although I enjoyed the movie but I missed something very special.

I missed Anju's company, her chearfullness, her excitement for the movie. I missed her love, while she waitied for me to come to grab something to eat. I missed her care while she was arguing with me to have my dinner. She was their with me, physically, in the movie but she was not their emotionally. I know the reason, she was fulfilling my expectation. I now know that she was tired after working in office for whole day but I didn't see all that in my excitement for the Bond....I didnt see her love and care in my irritation of not seeing her enjoy the movie....

PN talked about expectations in one of his blogs recently and today's incident was all about it...I expected her to be with me for the movie and she was there, she might have expected something from me but I cudn't fulfill it. I expected her to take dinner with me as I thought of treating her but she didnt met that one and later she expected me to have dinner alone and I didn't. I dont know, whenever we expect something from someone we love, like parents or love of life we tend to forgot that the other person might be expecting something, not in return but something.....

Seriously these expectations from love ones and fulfilling their expectations is the basis of love and bond which lies between people. Fulfilling these expectations is a way to tell or express that how much we love and care about you...

I always tell people that "Whenever and whatever you expect from other person, always remember that the other person expects if not more than the same from you" and I couldn't follow it today....I am sorry Anju for yesterday. I love you.

This is for you....


I know the night is fading
And I know the time�s gonna fly
And I�m never gonna tell you everything I gotta tell you
But I know I� 've got to give it a try


But I don�t know how to leave you
And I�ll never let you fall
And I don�t know how you do it
Making love out of nothing at all

But I�m never gonna make it without you
Do you really wanna see me crawl ?
And I�m never gonna make it like you do
Making love out of nothing at all

Making Love Out of Nothing at All...

Love you Anju and Miss you....

Comments

Prasant Naidu. said…
Bang Bang Love OOOOzzing out. Touch Wood dude. Well my thoughts are that when you love someone then the passion for the love should be at optimum level.At times we do things to make someone happy but in the mean time we forget that we don't like it and we are only doing it to make the other person happy. well if you think rationally then that's not good since you are really not making that person happy. But then love has no logic, no rational thinking its the feeling which could be felt by felt by a lovely heart. like u guys have.....Even Bond is in love now ...:)On other note Bond wasn't impressive this time. I was mad to see Bond but dude Daniel Rocks the show...I love that one line..."This man and i have some unfinished business to do".....
Monday, November 10, 2008 9:15:00 AM
Angel-Eye said…
I dont know how the hell i missed reading this one from you to me.... All I am gonna say is..
"Everything I do... I do it for you..."
Yours Forever
Friday, November 14, 2008 7:06:00 PM
Cherry said…
HEY !! I HAD READ THE OTHER ONE BUT NOT THIS ONE...ITS SOOO NICE....LITTLE THINGS IN RELATIONSHIPS MEAN SOOOOOOOO MUCH....and since i know both of u its so gr8
Friday, September 04, 2009 9:08:00 PM
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